Raising a child well
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Area: Parenting books
Age: Books for parents
Configuration: 153 * 224 mm | 292p
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chapter1 What are parents?
Chapter 1|How to raise a child?
1_ What will you pass on to your child?
2_ Parent-child relationship determines a child’s lifelong personality
3_ 100% of children’s problems arise from their relationship with their parents.
Chapter 2|What kind of parent am I?
1_ A person with a comfortable and good personality – Secure attachment
2_ A person who is uncomfortable around other people - dismissive type of insecure attachment
3_ People who feel anxious when alone - Obsessive-type insecure attachment
chapter2 How do children grow?
Chapter 1|Memories create children
1_ Memories create children
2_ Mechanism of memory
3_ Developing or destroying a child’s brain
Chapter 2|Expressing emotions is a prerequisite for survival
1_ What are emotions?
2_ Expressing emotions is the link between parents and children
Chapter 3 | Being smart? Excellent adaptability to the environment
1_ Environmental adaptability is the ability to receive help from others
2_ Social skills are the ability to empathize and be considerate
Chapter3 Raise your child like this
Chapter 1|Raise a child with a good heart and good personality
– 10 virtues to raise a happy child
Chapter 2|Q&A on raising children
Appendix 1: How to explore your relationship with your parents - Adult Attachment Interview
Appendix 2 Example of Adult Attachment Interview
Appendix 3 How does a child’s brain develop?
into the book
-p32, from [Attachment is an innate survival instinct]
The message that parents must consistently deliver to their children by continuously responding sensitively and empathizing with them from the beginning of their lives is, “We are always looking at you and always listening to what you say. You are a precious and meaningful being. We like you just the way you are. “I will listen carefully to what you say and respond with respect for your reaction.” An exchange of friendly signals occurs between the child and parent as they respond to the child's smile with a smile and empathize verbally with the child's feelings. And through the process of sharing this signal, the child develops a sense of belonging: 'I am connected to a very safe and good being.' Furthermore, they develop the belief that ‘I am not alone in the world’ and internalize the value of ‘I am a good person.’ It is about having an unwavering belief that ‘I was, am, and will always be a good person, and I am connected to people who understand me.’ When a child develops this kind of faith, he or she can understand and accept other friends and, when he or she grows up, many other people, including neighbors and colleagues, with a much broader heart.
-p164-165, from [Feeling understood improves social skills]
It is a prejudice to say that ‘introversion is not possible’. First of all, let go of the illusion that only sociable and active extroverts can make a living in this harsh world. The belief that one has to be proactive to get ahead and succeed has almost reached the level of delusion. In the end, adults' delusions make children more withdrawn. Being shy isn't something to be embarrassed about. I'm so shy that I can't even dare to sing in front of others. But that's not something to be embarrassed about. When guests come, the adults tell them to sing, but the children are shy and shy away. Then, “Is this guy so embarrassed that he can’t even sing a song?” and scolds them. But this is not the right attitude. It is not right to teach the beautiful shyness that comes from a gentle personality as something 'embarrassing' or 'inferior'. Instead of being embarrassed by a child who is shy, say, “Isn’t this child cute because he or she is shy?” We need the wisdom of a mother who says, Shyness is neither embarrassing nor inferior. It is truly a beautiful, high-dimensional emotion of a pure human being.
-p259-260, from [Q13 When you feel unconfident and intimidated]
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