The psychology of a 36-year-old that a mother does not know – Reading the inner thoughts of your child at 60 to XNUMX months

Description

This book is intended to be a guide to happier parenting by helping you properly understand the development level and behavior of a four-year-old child. It is said that before blindly trying to change a child's behavior, one must understand the developmental level of the child's age group. It is not about forcing right and wrong behavior according to adult standards, but rather helping parents to set an eye level that matches the child's level of development.

Once you understand your child's behavior, stronger trust is built between you and your child, communication becomes smoother, and raising your voice and reprimanding becomes less frequent.

The author, who provides counseling and parent education in clinical settings, is incorporating the embarrassing feelings and exhaustion experiences she felt not only as a development expert but also as a parent while raising her daughter in the past, and applying them to parenting theory.

It is also written as if a four-year-old child was talking directly to his mother. A four-year-old can never think and act like an adult, but an adult is mature enough to think from a child's perspective. Once parents understand their child's developmental level, they can more easily predict their child's behavior.

 

Foreword/Recommendations

PART 01 I still don’t know what is right and wrong
01 Is it not okay to suck your finger?/ 02 Why do you use words like “You piece of shit~”?/ 03 I don’t bite my friends on purpose/ 04 I’m not a crybaby who cries at any time/ 05 I’m not a picky eater / 06 I'm absolutely not a liar / 07 I'm not a thoughtless stubborn person / 08 Is it bad to tell my friend that he's making fun of me? / 09 It's so hard, should you stop whining?

PART 02 Four years old is still an impulsive age
01 Children like me are full of energy/ 02 What should I do when I’m really angry?/ 03 He wronged me first/ 04 Even my mom hits me when she’s angry/ 05 Are you saying I’m too self-indulgent?/ 06 I don’t like it, I don’t like it. I really hate it/ 07 What on earth does it mean to be spoiled?/ 08 What should I do when I get a bad feeling?

PART 03 Please understand the play of a four-year-old
01 Role playing is so much fun/ 02 I have a special friend that only I can see/ 03 Playing Power Rangers is really fun/ 04 I get really upset when my palace is ruined/ 05 I also have something I particularly like/ 06 I always want to play with my mom / 07 Please teach me how to play safely

PART 04 Four-year-olds are full of curiosity
01 I really like saying “Why?”/ 02 It’s not because I’m a bad kid, I’m just curious/ 03 Please tell me what ‘dying’ means/ 04 Mom and Dad, where are babies born?/ 05 It’s my pepper, why do you touch it? Can't it?/ 06 I bought it for you last time, so why can't it work this time?/ 07 Should I listen to mom or dad?

PART 05 I’m good at it alone
01 Now I can do it on my own/ 02 I really want to help my mom/ 03 Do I want to choose what clothes I wear/ 04 Please create an environment where I can do it myself/ 05 Why can’t I cross the street alone?
PART 06 I still need time to figure it out
01 Sleeping alone is so hard/ 02 Busy mornings are so hard to handle/ 03 I don't need naps anymore/ 04 How do you know that you want to take a nap when you sleep?/ 05 I also don't know why I make mistakes in my panties/ 06 My asshole really hurts when I poop/ 07 I need my mom when I wake up at night.

PART 07 There are still too many scary things
01 There is a scary monster living in my room/ 02 I really hate bugs/ 03 I had a bad dream while I was sleeping/ 04 Wait, I need to prepare my mind first.

PART 08 I need my mother’s warm consideration
01 When I eat out, I like restaurants with playrooms/ 02 I really, really hate being alone/ 03 It’s so hard to go grocery shopping with Mom/ 04 Mom, negotiate this issue with me/ 05 I want to marry my beloved dad/ 06 Don’t start screaming. Please give it to me/ 07 “Yes, I like it!” is much better than “No!”/ 08 Please tell me a solution rather than hitting me/ 09 When can I eat cookies?/ 10 Please don’t talk on the phone for too long/ 11 I watch the TV without realizing it. I'm falling in love

PART 09 Why does mom only like my younger brother?
01 What should I do when I become an older sister?/ 02 I wish the baby would disappear/ 03 I think my mom loves my younger sibling more

PART 10 Keeping the rules is good for me, right?
01 Why do I have to follow the rules?/ 02 How do I tell strangers apart?/ 03 Is daycare a fun place?/ 04 I want to be with my mom at daycare too/ 05 Why do I have to share it with them?

PART 11 I want to make friends
01 I want to be friends with him, what should I do?/ 02 Can I bring a friend home?/ 03 I know how to think about other people too.