Choi Min-jun's son coaching encyclopedia

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“Is my disobedient son the problem? “Is it my problem that I only get angry?”
A son who doesn't change no matter how much she says, a mother who feels helpless
Now is the time to take decisive action!
70 subscriptions, passing on special know-how unique to 「Son TV」

"Ugh! Is it your son? “It’s not easy raising a son, are you okay?”
When you say you have given birth to a son, you can hear voices of concern, big and small, from those around you. Because of these words, even before the child is born, I worry that it might be a boy. In reality, most parents raising sons have a lot of worries. I am afraid that my son will play rough and get hurt, that he will fight violently with his friends, that he will become addicted to games, that he will ruin the atmosphere in the classroom, etc.
My son's overflowing energy and competitive spirit, his refusal to listen once something is said, and his outspoken expressions often make things difficult for my son's mother. He often gets angry and yells at his child without realizing it and then blames himself. I'm always confused as to whether my son who doesn't listen is the problem or whether I'm the one who just gets angry. I feel helpless because my son never changes no matter how much I tell him. In numerous books and broadcasts, experts say, 'Don't get angry, empathize with your child,' but there are many parents who complain that the language of empathy does not seem to speak to their children.
Director Choi Min-jun, Korea's top son education expert and YouTube host of the 70 channel "Son TV", says we must face the reality that it is not easy to raise a son well with warmth and love alone. It is important to empathize with a child's feelings, but when raising a son, 'behavioral parenting', which corrects the child with appropriate acceptance and firmness, is essential.

The basics of son coaching: ‘behavioral parenting’ rather than ‘empathetic parenting’
How to raise a son properly with appropriate acceptance and firmness
The best solution that develops your natural strengths and corrects problem behaviors

‘Behavior parenting’ refers to giving precise instructions to a child without showing appeal or anger and showing them through action when the child does not follow them. In other words, it is a way to warmly restrain the child without attacking the child. Since excessive empathy often prevents children from responding properly to their words and actions, 'behavioral parenting' is essential to correct wrong behavior. In the book, the author presents specific ways to change his son's bad behavior and develop his strengths without hurting him. If parents also treat their children with 'behavioral parenting' without unnecessary emotional expenditure, their feelings of self-reproach will decrease.
This book contains the author's special insights revealed through consultation with numerous mothers of sons and education targeting only boys. Not only are methods for understanding your son's temperament, language study, emotional coaching, game control, and increasing self-efficacy presented, but also selected and included topical content that received great response on "Son TV."
Although books related to raising sons are constantly being published in the publishing market, it is difficult for any expert to follow the author's clear insights and unrivaled know-how shown on the “Son TV” channel. This book is a compilation of the son coaching secrets of the author, who receives strong support and trust from 70 subscribers, and will be a must-read for all parents of sons from infancy to those who have entered puberty.

We must recognize our son's innate characteristics as they are.
Grow up as a child who loves your own temperament!

“Son TV,” which has a reputation as the best educational channel, is loved by a variety of subscribers, including parents raising sons, parents raising daughters, and wives who have difficulty understanding their husbands. In addition to the know-how in raising sons, it is also influential as a channel to understand the difficulties parents face while raising young children and expand their understanding of others through a psychological approach. Although the view that gender differences are caused by social environment is stronger than ever, children's innate temperament clearly exists. Therefore, it is a big task for parents to properly teach their sons amidst sensitive changes in social consciousness. When parents understand their son's characteristics well, acknowledge the differences, and provide appropriate coaching to their child, they will be able to change their son without hurting him.
When you see your son's natural side as it is, he will come to love his own temperament. Additionally, self-efficacy grows when you develop his or her given strengths. Pointing out the child's shortcomings and limiting thoughts and experiences about their identity should not take precedence. The author says that the most important essence of education is 'instilling an identity so that one can have correct expectations about oneself.' If a correct identity for oneself is established, the child will accept himself as he is, and will automatically develop wings of growth.