{"product_id":"못참는-아이-욱하는-부모-2","title":"The Impatient Child, the Quick-Tempered Parent","description":"Description\nPrologue. Never raise your child to become an adult who snaps in anger!\n\nPart 1. Did You Snap at Your Child Again Today?\n\nChapter 1. Parenting Is So Hard, and Today I Snapped Again\n- Snap, then regret. Snap, then regret. Snap, then regret.\n- Suddenly, out of nowhere! Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde?\n- Is it a weekend special? Snapping before, behind, and beside the child!\n- Why is parenting so exhausting anyway?\n\nChapter 2. Limitless Destruction! How Snapping Ruins Parenting\n- Snapping interferes with a child's emotional development\n- Snapping damages the parent-child relationship\n- Snapping lowers a child's problem-solving ability\n- Two things that matter most in parenting: patience and respect\n- No matter how much care you've put into parenting, one moment of snapping can undo it all\n\nChapter 3. I Know I Shouldn't, So Why Can't I Stop?\n- A society that glorifies \"snapping,\" a society that provokes it\n- A painful childhood, and delayed dependency needs\n- Why do I snap especially at my own child?\n★Bonus Page. Find Out Your \"Snapping\" Index\n\nPart 2. There's a Right Way to Handle a Child Who Can't Wait\n\nChapter 1. \"If You Don't Give It to Me Right Now, I'll Throw a Fit\": When They Can't Wait Even a Little\n- Why can't children wait even a little?\n- Say \"Wait,\" and actually wait\n- Today's children have smaller \"emotional pockets\"\n- If you force it down, the emotional pocket will eventually burst\n☆Think about parenting ① The child who especially can't stand being hungry\n\nChapter 2. Insisting on Their Own Way and Not Listening to Anyone: When They Only Want Things Their Way\n- What parents really want when they wish their child would listen, vs. the child's true feelings\n- What's needed now is setting limits and boundaries\n- Why have you become so stubbornly unwilling to listen?\n- Trying to control a child's sudden anger with your own snapping — a guaranteed failure!\n☆Think about parenting ② No to vague parenting! Yes to precise guidance!\n\nChapter 3. Pushing, Hitting, Throwing, Spitting: When They Act Aggressively\n- Beneath aggressive behavior lies anger and frustration\n- \"If you thought that, you must have felt upset\"\n- Simply say, \"That's not okay,\" for behavior that isn't allowed\n- The difference between a child with healthy assertiveness and an aggressive child\n☆Think about parenting ③ When your child comes home after \"getting revenge\" for being hit last time\n\nChapter 4. No Matter Who's Watching: When They Won't Listen in Public\n- A parent who can't control one child? The shame of it\n- Teach them what's not allowed in that place, and let them learn by observing\n- Even if you worry about the neighbors, your household should always have consistent rules\n- Does your child have two faces? Different at home and outside\n- The lasting damage of blowing up at a child in public\n☆Think about parenting ④ How to talk to a child who sulks for a long time\n\nChapter 5. Never Backing Down in an Argument: When They Talk Back Constantly\n- The psychology behind why parents find talking back so uncomfortable\n- Children should be encouraged to speak up — that's the basic principle!\n- Hear out any kind of talking back all the way through, and then what?\n- Why does my child talk back so much, and only to me?\n☆Think about parenting ⑤ If I don't correct it now, will I ever be able to later?\n\nChapter 6. Nothing Works No Matter What You Try: When They Can't Be Soothed\n- A parent's own hidden immaturity gets triggered\n- Focus not on the \"whining\" itself, but on the \"reason for the whining\"!\n- Three hidden reasons why a child can't be soothed\n- Think of your child before you think of other people's opinions\n- Four golden rules for soothing a whiny child\n☆Think about parenting ⑥ When a wife snaps at the child, what does the husband do?\n★Bonus Page. Handling a Short-Tempered Husband or Wife\n\nPart 3. When You Feel the Anger Rising, Look for a Solution\n\nChapter 1. Mom Is Dying of Busyness, but the Child Takes Forever: When They Won't Hurry Up\n- Why don't children move quickly?\n- Children are simple — think simply and respond simply\n- Aim not for what makes mom comfortable, but for what helps the child grow\n- On a parent's impatience\n- Why have I become unable to bear it when my child doesn't hurry?\n☆Think abou","brand":"IBOOKPARK","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":49624400265444,"sku":"07312026998","price":26.0,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0831\/9788\/6692\/files\/XL-8_3f965fd6-acaa-4cc3-9deb-0c3be4e23439.jpg?v=1786427016","url":"https:\/\/ibookpark.com\/en\/products\/%eb%aa%bb%ec%b0%b8%eb%8a%94-%ec%95%84%ec%9d%b4-%ec%9a%b1%ed%95%98%eb%8a%94-%eb%b6%80%eb%aa%a8-2","provider":"IBOOKPARK","version":"1.0","type":"link"}