{"product_id":"제대로-키워라-부모역할이-바뀌면-아이의-미래가-바","title":"Raise Them Right: When Parenting Changes, Your Child's Future Changes","description":"Description\n\n[Opening Story] The Success Parents Want, The Future Children Dream Of\n\nChapter 1. Children Who Have Lost Their Way\nParenting Is Also Strategy\nChildren broken by their parents' greed \/ 3 ways to make children strong\nParents who bruise their children's hearts\nChildren without dreams \/ Parents who steal their children's dreams\n\nChapter 2. How Do You Love?\nBad Parents, Good Parents\nAre you qualified to be a parent?\nWhat type of parent am I?\nDiagnosing parental 'autonomy' toward children \/ Diagnosing 'parenting capacity' \/ Explanation of diagnostic results \/ Classification of parent types\nCharacteristics by parent type\nControlling parents \/ Neglectful parents \/ Stubborn parents \/ Coaching parents\nHow to change into a proper parent\nControlling parent → Coaching parent \/ Neglectful parent → Coaching parent \/ Stubborn parent → Coaching parent\n\nChapter 3. Say Goodbye Like a Real Parent\nAuthoritarianism ruins self-esteem\nParents who confuse authority with authoritarianism \/ Authoritarian words that lower self-esteem \/ A parent's love is the foundation of a child's self-esteem \/ The 'ability to be alone' is a measure of self-esteem \/ Self-esteem breeds success\nSaving face destroys patience\nChildren who can't hold back foul language \/ Comparison destroys a child's patience \/ Patient children are smart\nOverprotection breaks willpower\nOver-support that steals the spirit of challenge \/ Stubbornness breeds helplessness \/ Materialism blurs values \/ Teens' career preferences becoming increasingly narrow \/ Greed for money is a black hole for all values\nObsession with being first sickens character\nCharacter? We don't really know about that \/ First place first, character later\n\nChapter 4. The Parent's Role Changes\nFinding a new role for parents\nA world where parenting has become harder \/ Respecting autonomy instead of controlling \/ 4 types of children \/ Setting appropriate decision-making standards \/ A perfect parent is worse\nParents as consultants\nIs Dad a fixer? \/ The fixer-parent who creates an adult-child \/ Parents must see the forest\nParents as learners\nWhen parents study, children study too \/ A parent's actions are a child's learning material \/ President Kim Yong, and the mothers of Toegye and Yulgok\nParents as motivators\nA future-focused frame and the art of praise \/ Loving coldly like a wild beast's mother \/ Alluring love \/ Accepting emotions while limiting behavior \/ Building resilience from hurt\nParents as marketers\nThe child is the customer \/ What the child truly wants\n\nChapter 5. Raise Them Right\nCoaching methods parents can use\nSupporting the search for purpose \/ Awakening values\nDreaming of a calling, not just success\nHaving a heart-stirring mission \/ Drawing a vivid vision \/ Reviewing mission and vision often\nSetting goals, not slogans\nIdentifying 'core tasks' first \/ Using 'numbers' \/ Creating a 'roadmap' to achieve goals \/ Targeting the 'pressure point'\nBuilding competence, not just credentials\nQuantifying behavioral standards \/ Setting 'customized' behavioral standards \/ Tracking monthly, weekly, and daily progress \/ Managing time from the perspectives of 'Chronos' and 'Kairos'\nCommunicating, not just asserting\nWhy communication between parents and children fails \/ Talking in numbers rather than words \/ Distinguishing fact from opinion \/ Practicing 'clear listening and clear answering'\n\n[Closing Story] You Can Give Love, But You Cannot Give Thought\n\n[Appendix] The Right Coaching Approach for Difficult Situations\nWhen a child suffers school violence such as assault, sexual harassment, or bullying\nWhen family problems arise, such as a parent's job loss, marital conflict, or illness in the family\nWhen a child becomes addicted to computer games, smartphones, or fantasy novels\nWhen a child's grades keep falling\n\nInside the Book\nCountless people and companies come to me for advice and to attend my lectures. I'm asked questions like, \"How can I work well?\" and \"How can I get employees to produce results on their own?\" The secret to working well and achieving results isn't training or education, nor is it orders or systems. It depends on how well the person doing the work understands its goal, and how strong their own motivation is to achieve it. A parent's role is no different. If you're a parent, you've probably asked yourself questions like, \"How do I get my child to study on their own?\" or \"What should I do when their grades keep dropping?\" Doing well academically and having good character...","brand":"IBOOKPARK","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":49623757816036,"sku":"1383171543","price":23.0,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0831\/9788\/6692\/files\/x9788901154619.jpg?v=1786421586","url":"https:\/\/ibookpark.com\/en\/products\/%ec%a0%9c%eb%8c%80%eb%a1%9c-%ed%82%a4%ec%9b%8c%eb%9d%bc-%eb%b6%80%eb%aa%a8%ec%97%ad%ed%95%a0%ec%9d%b4-%eb%b0%94%eb%80%8c%eb%a9%b4-%ec%95%84%ec%9d%b4%ec%9d%98-%eb%af%b8%eb%9e%98%ea%b0%80-%eb%b0%94","provider":"IBOOKPARK","version":"1.0","type":"link"}