If you are a parent, educate yourself in Havruta like a Jew.

Jewish parents who emphasize 'questioning' as the most important virtue in their children's education always ask their children questions. Children who receive questions from their parents constantly think to find their own answers, and in the process of pondering logical solutions to respond to their parents' opinions, they develop their thinking skills and naturally grow in wisdom. In this debate, you neither win nor lose. There is no right or wrong. This is because we are not trying to find the right answer. A child who is not used to speaking her mind or who is not good at expressing her opinions in front of others often cannot speak logically even as an adult. But not a Jewish child. They are not afraid to voice their opinions because they have been taught naturally from a young age not only in Talmud education but also in everyday life by talking to their parents and being respected.
-One. Jews are created through Havruta education/Miracle of conversation, Havruta education - 1-23 pages

Havruta allows us to have different views, different viewpoints, and different perspectives. Discussion and debate require us to question even objectively acknowledged facts. He makes us think upside down, even about things we take for granted. This is because you must have your own opinion that is different from the other person's opinion. This is because discussion and debate cannot be established with the same opinion, and it is impossible to win with common sense. Therefore, Habuta values ​​one's own thoughts, new thoughts, and thoughts that are different from others, and the ability to think differently and newly is creativity. Havruta essentially requires different and new thoughts. The Talmud is a book that compiles the discussions and controversies of rabbis and sages, and Havruta is about asking questions about the opinions of the masters to get different opinions.
-One. Jews are created through Havruta education/Jewish child education that turns ordinary children into the world's best talents - pages 1-41

Children are naturally curious beings. Whenever I get the chance, I pay attention to everything around me and strive to know more. ‘First’ there is curiosity and ‘then’ there is knowledge. The process of learning what you don’t know is itself a fun game. However, the order of today's education has changed to force knowledge 'first' and curiosity 'second'. Of course, children are bound to be bored and distressed. The separation of study and play and the reversal of the order of curiosity and knowledge arise from the impatience of parents and society. Today, our parents want their children to learn faster and more. Parents were so competitive themselves that they forced it on their children. As a result, they cannot wait for the child to have a strong curiosity and pure motivation, and are hasty instilling knowledge into them. I made the mistake of pouring water even though the bowl was not prepared.
-2. Children who think for themselves, children who are not afraid to speak/Study like play - 122p

Questions, refutations, and proofs are actually the flowers of Havruta. In the process of discussion and debate, the more sharp questions and sharp rebuttals that dig into the loopholes in the other party's logic, and the more valid proofs that further strengthen one's logic, the better Havruta becomes. In this way, you will learn how to interpret any text from various angles, and you will be able to think beyond your own opinions. Through this process, students sometimes support each other and sometimes challenge each other, expanding and establishing their thinking. It is based on this tradition that Jews listen seriously to what others say and strongly assert their own opinions whenever their thoughts differ from others.
-2. A child who thinks for himself, a child who is not afraid to speak/Think differently and anew with Habuta - p. 172

According to the 'Global People's Values ​​Survey', the happiness index of Koreans falls below the OECD average as well as the world average. It is lower than Bangladesh or Mexico. The reason is because they do not prioritize family. They sacrifice their families for success, give up time with their children, and not only are there no communication between family members, it's even awkward. Even though Koreans have made promises to their children, they usually choose to break their promises when their boss asks them to have a company dinner. To a Jew, this is unthinkable. For them, Friday afternoon to Saturday is a time they cannot give up to anyone other than their family. Even on weekday evenings, if possible, I try to spend time with my children by eating at home. For Jews, success is always considered the ultimate value centered on family, that is, synonymous with happiness. We think, ‘If you are successful, your family will be happy,’ but Jews believe, ‘If your family is happy, you will be successful.’
-3. Education that dreams of a child's happy study/Put the family's happiness before the child's success - 192p

“Did you listen to what the teacher said today?”