Description Part 1. The Mom Who Gets Hurt by Her Child, The Child Who Gets Hurt by Mom — Being a Mom Is Truly Hard Raising kids is tough, isn't it?│Working moms have it even harder│The biggest reason it's so hard: 'anxiety'│Is a 30 on a dictation test really just a 30?│Moms need comfort and recharging too Please, Won't You Understand My Heart? Why don't kids understand their mom's heart?│Show your child the 'real' loving heart of a mother The Way of Loving a Child That Mom Believes Is Right How do Korean moms show love to their children?│A once-overwhelmed mom discovers the true nature of her own way of loving The Psychological Reason It's Hard Even When You Try Your Best: Insecure Attachment Attachment matters│How does insecure attachment begin?│Raise a child who's truly close to mom, a real 'mama's kid'│Sensitivity and responsiveness The Secret to Raising Your Child Happily and with Peace of Mind: Conversation The power of words that move the heart│Parents who have successful conversations with their children 【1-Minute Talk for Parents ①】 It's Not 'Speaking-Listening' But 'Listening-Speaking' 【1-Minute Talk for Parents ②】 Don't 'Speech,' Just 'Talk' Part 2. Mom and Child — Conversations Should Differ Depending on Emotional State What State Are Mom's Heart and the Child's Heart In? Let's identify where the feeling lies│Who is uncomfortable?│Whose problem is it to solve? Is It the Child's Behavior, or the Parent's Judgment? Observe the child's behavior instead of judging it│Practice describing behavior│When a child sends a distress signal that their heart is uncomfortable│Don't judge, don't teach — just read their heart When a Child's Heart Is Uncomfortable I. Reading Emotions What emotions are hidden in your child's heart?│Find the core emotion beneath the iceberg of feelings│Emotions in your child you shouldn't miss│A five-year-old to a five-year-old│The effect of parents naming emotions When a Child's Heart Is Uncomfortable II. Reading Thoughts Help your child find the good thoughts within│Thoughts can be chosen deliberately│Good thoughts help children grow│New thoughts are the key to change│Here's how to deal with negative thoughts│Help your child think differently When Mom's Heart Is Uncomfortable, Speaking Your Mind Whose problem is it to solve?│The conversation that conveys a parent's feelings: the 'I-message'│What kind of conversations do you want to have with your child?│Who reads the frustrated heart of a parent?│Reading hearts takes effort from both mom and dad 【1-Minute Talk for Parents ③】 For Parents Who Struggle to Start a Conversation 【1-Minute Talk for Parents ④】 The Closing Words Determine the Quality of a Conversation Part 3. As Children Grow, Parents' Conversations Must Change Too Empathy Requires Conversational Skill Heart-sharing conversation techniques for closeness and connection│The greatest strength of Korean moms: agreeing and adding encouraging responses│'Empathetic conversation' that raises socially skilled children│Make good use of the positive function of follow-up comments Growth and Learning Happen When Everyone's Heart Is at Ease Where does your child's interest lie?│The surprising power of personal interest│Motivation is the start of everything│Spark learning motivation through situational interest│Nurture cognitive interest│Conversations that bring interest and motivation to life There Are Words Every Growth Stage Needs Ages 0-1: Is the world trustworthy? Can I trust myself?│Ages 2-3: I'll do it myself. Praise my mistakes too│Ages 4-5: I want to choose. Encourage my choices│Age 6 to early elementary: Help your child grow to love learning│Upper elementary: I want to do well too. I can do it, right? 【1-Minute Talk for Parents ⑤】 Small Talk Matters 【1-Minute Talk for Parents ⑥】 Sometimes You Just Don't Want to Say Anything to Your Child Part 4. A Hurting Child Needs Healing Conversation from Parents Healing Conversation Is Different from Growth-Oriented Conversation Support your child until their heart feels at peace│See the world through your child's eyes│Admit your own mistakes as a parent│Stay fully present, right here, right now│Healing conversation for a crying child│Healing conversation for a child who lies When Their Heart Is Understood, Pain Takes On a Whole Different Shape and Meaning How Old Is Your Child, Really? The Wounded Inner Child Become the parent your 'inner child' needs again│The key lies within the heart of the wounded child