Description [Opening Story] The Success Parents Want, The Future Children Dream Of Chapter 1. Children Who Have Lost Their Way Parenting Is Also Strategy Children broken by their parents' greed / 3 ways to make children strong Parents who bruise their children's hearts Children without dreams / Parents who steal their children's dreams Chapter 2. How Do You Love? Bad Parents, Good Parents Are you qualified to be a parent? What type of parent am I? Diagnosing parental 'autonomy' toward children / Diagnosing 'parenting capacity' / Explanation of diagnostic results / Classification of parent types Characteristics by parent type Controlling parents / Neglectful parents / Stubborn parents / Coaching parents How to change into a proper parent Controlling parent → Coaching parent / Neglectful parent → Coaching parent / Stubborn parent → Coaching parent Chapter 3. Say Goodbye Like a Real Parent Authoritarianism ruins self-esteem Parents who confuse authority with authoritarianism / Authoritarian words that lower self-esteem / A parent's love is the foundation of a child's self-esteem / The 'ability to be alone' is a measure of self-esteem / Self-esteem breeds success Saving face destroys patience Children who can't hold back foul language / Comparison destroys a child's patience / Patient children are smart Overprotection breaks willpower Over-support that steals the spirit of challenge / Stubbornness breeds helplessness / Materialism blurs values / Teens' career preferences becoming increasingly narrow / Greed for money is a black hole for all values Obsession with being first sickens character Character? We don't really know about that / First place first, character later Chapter 4. The Parent's Role Changes Finding a new role for parents A world where parenting has become harder / Respecting autonomy instead of controlling / 4 types of children / Setting appropriate decision-making standards / A perfect parent is worse Parents as consultants Is Dad a fixer? / The fixer-parent who creates an adult-child / Parents must see the forest Parents as learners When parents study, children study too / A parent's actions are a child's learning material / President Kim Yong, and the mothers of Toegye and Yulgok Parents as motivators A future-focused frame and the art of praise / Loving coldly like a wild beast's mother / Alluring love / Accepting emotions while limiting behavior / Building resilience from hurt Parents as marketers The child is the customer / What the child truly wants Chapter 5. Raise Them Right Coaching methods parents can use Supporting the search for purpose / Awakening values Dreaming of a calling, not just success Having a heart-stirring mission / Drawing a vivid vision / Reviewing mission and vision often Setting goals, not slogans Identifying 'core tasks' first / Using 'numbers' / Creating a 'roadmap' to achieve goals / Targeting the 'pressure point' Building competence, not just credentials Quantifying behavioral standards / Setting 'customized' behavioral standards / Tracking monthly, weekly, and daily progress / Managing time from the perspectives of 'Chronos' and 'Kairos' Communicating, not just asserting Why communication between parents and children fails / Talking in numbers rather than words / Distinguishing fact from opinion / Practicing 'clear listening and clear answering' [Closing Story] You Can Give Love, But You Cannot Give Thought [Appendix] The Right Coaching Approach for Difficult Situations When a child suffers school violence such as assault, sexual harassment, or bullying When family problems arise, such as a parent's job loss, marital conflict, or illness in the family When a child becomes addicted to computer games, smartphones, or fantasy novels When a child's grades keep falling Inside the Book Countless people and companies come to me for advice and to attend my lectures. I'm asked questions like, "How can I work well?" and "How can I get employees to produce results on their own?" The secret to working well and achieving results isn't training or education, nor is it orders or systems. It depends on how well the person doing the work understands its goal, and how strong their own motivation is to achieve it. A parent's role is no different. If you're a parent, you've probably asked yourself questions like, "How do I get my child to study on their own?" or "What should I do when their grades keep dropping?" Doing well academically and having good character...